my sister died from cancer recently, she loved chili peppers, nine chili peppers are around my ankel, she was 9 yrs younger, there are 9 letters in my name, I was born on the 9th, i have two sons....9 yrs apart....by a man 9 yrs younger.....in the front of my ankel, where the chili peppers come together, i have "You Go Girl!" her fav saying